Thanks for bringing me back to reality. I had thought that I had detached from all except OW, but from what you have said that is not true. There is some question if EA has moved to PA - yep it has, and I have confirmation of it (although H thinks I don't.) This is when I stopped being physical with him (which is a whole other crazy story.)
Fortunately I am someone who thinks about something forever. For example, if I decided to hire a PI - I would get around to it like a year from now - I work that slow. What would I do with it? Give it to his work, as they think they are just friends. I have decided to back down again from the PI.
I have thought bad of OW and recently found out that she is worse than I thought. If she continues, she will take H down and he won't know what hit him. The stupid things people do when they are infatuated.
I have been doing great at GAL - and see mr. control freak monster. What am I supposed to do? He put me in this situation. I cannot sit at home and hope that he will wake up. This is probably hard for him, bc I am a home body by trait.
H still wants to do lots of family things - I am the one that plans the activities and invite him. H always waits until last minute to say he is going. The big GAL is while he is at work, and he HATES it. ha ha! His relationship with the kids is slipping but he does not see it that way. I don't think he will be one that leaves his kids - he will fight for them if we get divorced. He has said he is gathering evidence on me - ha ha! I am boring - nothing to get. This is why 99% of my GAL is with kids, he does not need ammo. H is paranoid right now, espicially when I take kids out. It is looking like H is bipolar, but stopped IC before it could be determined.
Any comments, suggestions are welcome. As you can see I still am a mess and all over the place. Thanks for being my sounding board. I value you every post I get and suggestion. Have a great week everyone! Prayers for all of you!
