Seems like you like this dance you have going on with this man. Maybe, you don't want to change?

He's made it clear he doesn't want a commitment. So, what's your payoff?? The tease? The challenge?

I'm still not sure why you are here?

Seems like these are the facts:

He doesn't want a commitment. He talks a good game but doesn't take action.

You kinda do the same. Talk a good game, but don't take action.

Magic + Same ol' = Same ol' thing.

What's the payoff? Must be something, otherwise you would be focused on yourself. You're not.

"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man

“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson