Thank you for your candor, whytry. It really helps me to understand him. I guess you also would advise that i detach and GAL. I do really love him and hate seeing him destroy so much of what he worked hard for, not only our M, but his relationship with my S30, his stepson, who he absolutely loved. I think he almost wants to be fired from his director position at Fortune 200 co. he worked so hard for years, and was very proud at each promotion. I have compassion for him, but i feel as if I need to stay away from him to avoid the "tornado" he blows at me. I know another man from DivorceCare who had A with a woman he knew from high school while his W was in hospital. He is now very remorseful, esp for breakup of his family. Whytry, i will read up on your sitch, and hope the best for you.
M 56 H 52 M 13.5 T 15 S 28 twinStep Ds 24 ILYBNILWY BD 1/5/14 OW 4/11/14 Divorce petition efiled 5/5/14 Divorce final 7/8/14
