Spur her into action to see changes in me that she would not witnesses first hand.
What are you expecting in terms of actions from W? Do you mean you're hoping she'll fall on the ground begging you for a chance after seeing the "light"? Ain't happening, buddy.
Trust me, W is noticing you. She is watching you carefully from afar and stocking away your actions/words in the back of her mind. She doesn't want to comment or move toward you because she doesn't want you to get your hopes up. She's looking for consistency from you so she can trust and feel safe with you again.
So damper down your expectations to a lower level. That way you won't feel hurt or get disappointed.
