Heather... not sure I understand that concept. My time right now is figuring out if HE is someone I can spend the rest of my life with. Looking at him for who he IS... who he strives to be. The REAL him.
I will ponder what you are saying.
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Earlier today he texted while I was at church to see if I wanted to be involved in his cousin's business/visit. I did... but, thought we could use the space after the nice night. As my landlord and new purchasers wanted to come through at the same time anyway. So, I told him and to say Hi for me.
About 45 mins later, he texts to see if he can pop by to pick up his jacket (it was in a vehicle I have). I told him that I was just out of the shower, and for him to come get it later, after all the commotion was done. and coffee? (I decided to extend an olive branch to see if he would accept)... I think I would have been fine, if he had declined as I knew that he had work arrangements set up for same time. He wrote back "coffee would be nice", suggesting now would work better for him. I said I was squeezed for time now, maybe coffee later.
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Its 5pm now, waiting for a friend to come visit.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)