I've continued to think about the forgiveness question and I think who I really learned to forgive was me.

I was a very harsh judge of myself and when we are extremely critical of ourselves, we are usually just as critical of others.

So in learning to accept me as I am, without judging every little thing, forgiving myself when I'm not perfect, I can extend that same grace to others.

And let the past be the past.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss