I know I told her about the visit just to hurt her feelings or at least make her jealous. She really loves my grandparents and always wished we visited them more so I told her just to rub her nose in it a little. I even hesitated before sending the text message, but felt compelled because I was feeling hurt tonight.
is very different from what you are saying today?
Be honest even when it hurts, that's the only way we grow.
It's the only way we can make those real and lasting changes that have more to do with your R with yourself than with others.
I don't think there's an "official" going dim definition. There's only going dark in the book if I'm not mistaken. Going dim can be whatever you decide. My definition would be pleasant, honest interaction without pursuit.
I don't think wishing her well, as you would a friend, sends a pursuing message. But don't suddenly become someone you aren't. People see through that pretty quickly.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
