Mic, I'm so sorry this has taken an ugly turn and you're hurting. Wonka makes some great points. You can't make him do anything, really.
You take care of you and the kids and let your L take care of you (with your oversight and agreement of course). It will be interesting to find out more about your H as this moves forward.
Maintain strong boundaries.
What are you doing for you?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
