I have to agree with your W and Lost here. You did leave the marriage...it may not have been your intention but it happened.
Any of the LBS here will probably see it the same way.
I also agree with Lost that you really need to learn from that situation because I am sure you realize now that it isn't something you ever want to happen again.
Reread Lost's post.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
