Tad- Thanks for the response

I can't believe the things that MLCers say and do. Mine was very conservative - so swearing was a lot. Now h is drinking, EA and PA, tattooed (and getting another), watching porn, and about 15 other new things. He is completely opposite. For awhile I though he was changing to be like OW - but now see it is MLC.

I cannot believe what your XW was saying. Has she realized yet what she did?