She moved home but still in love with OM!

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I thought that those boundries were around talking about OM and what caused our problems.

Are you saying that I should not massage her sore shoulder?
I mean a friend of mine was massaging my knee when I was complaining that it hurt after working out,

I am confused maybe as to what boundries to reinforce.
Maybe have to go back and reread the book boundries.

The one thing that throws me off is how our marriage COUNSELORS used to tell me to maintain physical contact...