Wife Having Emotional Affair With Work Colleague

[artsy]

Jrock- it's ultimately your choice, we are just chiming in for opinions.

You need to control the healing process, not wait for something you have no control over to happen. What if it doesn't end? What if she just finds another one because the underlying issues with you, her and your M were not addressed?

Regardless of whether you tell OMs W or not, you should focus on you, not controlling the outcome. What got you to this point? She was unhappy about something. Were you really happy, looking back?

I would suggest you ask Sandi2 for advice. She was a WAW who had an A. She can give you the Ws perspective.

At the very least, look up her threads to see what she says. It is possible for you to come out on the other side of this a better person with a healthier M, but it is also possible for you to get stuck and be unhappy because people didn't react the way you thought they should.