Hi Scooby. My XW said the main reason that she was divorcing me was because I wouldn't take her to the "correct" grocery store when we went shopping.
Another day, minutes after telling me that there was nothing I could do or say that would make her stay, I lit a cigarette. (She doesn't smoke and hated the fact that I did even though she was a smoker when we met.) She looked at me and says: "Smoking? Yeah that'll make me change my mind and stay."
So yes.....THEY ARE ABSOLUTELY ****ING CRAZY!!!
There is nothing you could have done to prevent this.
Keep your head up.
Oh yeah, if you want to read crazy, check out my thread. I've been here over three years and my MLCer was textbook.
Tad
Currently: M 57 XW 58 Sons 39,34,32,30
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13