Dodged the bullet today - he did not even bring up having OW relative spending time with kids. I kept the kids busy, and invited H - he decided last minute to come (H has done that every single time since this all started.) I am hoping that i won't have to deal with it tomorrow.
Last week H has spent less time with OW. I wonder why. It has to be her sending him away - because he is so into her. When we were out about, I was disgusted by him. To know that he has been with OW and probably is a walking STD - YUCK! I still love him, whoever him is. I get excited when I see the old person, but I know that person will never come back to stay.
I have looked at finances and DUMB A has spent $10,000 in 6 months. When he does buy it is big ticket items. A lawyer suggested I keep track of these and can point out in divorce proceedings.
I am not getting tons of hang up calls on home phone and cell phone - only when H is gone. They are an unlisted number - well my friend works for phone company adn I talked to cell phone carrier. Most are coming from OW and some from his other new friends. I have the records to prove it. I am thinking maybe I will sue her for harrassment adn emotional distress. She has no money, but it would be a hoot to embarass her. Seriously not going to do it, but keeping the evidence non the less. WTF with calling and hanging up. OW is past middle age - but acts like she is 20. GEEZE H really found a winner. I read somewhere that they always choose some lower class person - that is putting it nicely...LMAO
Thanks everyone for the help and suggestions. I really appreciate it! You all are in my thoughts and prayers! Thanks again - right now you guys are my life line...:)
