Need someone to verbally slap me and get my mind straight again. W decided to open up a bit again last night and the details of the conversation aren't important...believe none of what you hear, right. But one of the things she has now mentioned twice is that a couple close influences have been trying to convince her that it would be a good idea to move into the apartment S and I are about to move into as a roommate coming up in a couple months. She didn't say much about it but brought it up twice in a few days. I think I'm reading too much into it but honestly, its a bad idea right?

Quick recap of facts...no OM, W out for 6 months now having walked out at BD, and no signs of slowing down the D process yet. Aparently she has paperwork in order but hasn't filed yet. Its still a bad idea right? I should just let it be and not touch that one with a 10 foot pole, am I right? I hat that she can still stir me up like this so easily.


M: 43 W: 43
Married 6 yrs.
T: 7 yrs.
Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10