Hi everyone. Been an all around bad day and it's only 12:30! W is in an awful mood because my parents are coming in a couple weeks and she wants to clean. It would have helped if she hasn't stopped doing 95% of the housework over the last few YEARS and as hard as I try, I can't keep up on my own.
I had planned on doing some GAL tonight but I just found out my daughters prom is tonight and her boyfriend is out of town so she is going with a GF and needs a ride. Of course, my wife will not even consider doing it. That's ok, don't have the money anyway. Also, we are all going to go visit her grandmother in the new nursing home one of the things my W insists on doing with me because she wants to hide the fact of her wanting out from her family, especially her GM (although with her mind so far gone now she wouldn't remember even if she were told!).
Really wanted to GAL tonight but daughter comes first. I guess maybe telling my W SHE needs to get her there and back as I'm busy would be a huge 180 but all that would do is put my daughter in the middle of my W's sh$& storm and I don't want to do that. W also is spending money we don't have after I told her not to and now wants me to make her car payment which is late because of her spending when we didn't have the funds and I can't pay it as we don't have the money! She could use the money she hid away but won't consider doing THAT! That's HER money, even though it came out of our joint account. The selfishness of the MLCer is so amazing!
So off to W's GM's with the kids. It's going to be a long weekend and I'm going to need to detach more than ever!
