she phones me when there is really no need, she chats about what has happened that day in work etc and other small talk. She got annoyed when she was with me on Thursday because I didn't appear to be full of joy to see her and because I was keeping my talk limited and only answering her etc. I really don't know what she expects and I told her when she stormed off. She can't expect me to be engaging happily with her when I feel so sad at the end of our marriage. As much as I know I should be acting as if everything is ok she makes it very difficult as she seems to be seeking attention but giving absolutely nothing in return. I just can't seem to get a balance no matter what I do.