J, let me ask you this. What are your boundaries? Is continued A, a deal breaker? Is a continued A while living in a same roof tolerable to you?

What are you doing to GAL? Artsy is right don't make a quick decision about the D yet.

Read the DB books, consult a L, know your rights. Plan ahead before your next move. Get your ducks in a row.

At a minimum, set up healthy boundaries. Seek starsky in the boards he can offer healthy boundaries.

I'm in to not tolerating A while living in the same roof but it took me 3 yrs of planning.

Keep posting.

Newman

me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.