I would just urge you to take a breath for a moment- D is a huge deal. I think most of us on here have to deal with infidelity. It's horrible! We know, but maybe take a look in some of the other forums, talk to a DB coach, go to IC, something to help you process it all before you go down a path too hastily.

You don't want to have a huge regret when this is all said and done. We all have been where you are- it gets better with time.

I guess I'm just urging you to give it some time before you act on anything.

Hang in there!!!


Me: 39
H: 45
Second marriage for both
H left 12/2013
M:4 T:5.5