Also, do not talk about your R at all if you can help it. If your W brings it, listen and validate ONLY. No justification, no trying to explain why you did what you did, behaved a certain way, etc. Just "that must have been hard for you, I'm sorry I made you feel that way" and things along that line.


M 46
H 44
D 12 S 8
M 9 T 11
BD 2/15/13
"Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13
Agree we are 'healing' 7/13
Definitely Piecing 9/13