Also, do not talk about your R at all if you can help it. If your W brings it, listen and validate ONLY. No justification, no trying to explain why you did what you did, behaved a certain way, etc. Just "that must have been hard for you, I'm sorry I made you feel that way" and things along that line.
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13