Seeing the lawyer could be a lengthy process so is there a way I can handle this with my wife to try and keep the peace while seeking advice? Do I ask her to be patient while seeking advice? Do I not mention I'm seeing a lawyer and if she moves out in the meantime, so be it?


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014