Seeing the lawyer could be a lengthy process so is there a way I can handle this with my wife to try and keep the peace while seeking advice? Do I ask her to be patient while seeking advice? Do I not mention I'm seeing a lawyer and if she moves out in the meantime, so be it?
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014