Probably bad idea but I couldn't resist. Last night while she was getting her mud run stuff in order, I took her car (with her permission) and filled it up. i couldn't stop there. I washed and squeegeed every window. Bought her her favorite vitamin water so she could have on way. This morning before she woke up, I started fresh pot of coffee, got out a coffee mug and a travel coffee mug, laid out her normal breakfast (cream cheese and sunflower seeds), packed vitamin water with ice to keep cold, got out bag for her muddy clothes so she wouldn't forget one. Later told her to have fun and be careful before she left.
Yes, you should be giving her TIME and SPACE. I have been where you have been, and what you are doing is very likely perceived as pressure, and pressure only continues to push the WAS away.
Make sure you read the book.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
