Great stuff from Bug and Lost. I'm not an expert on happiness, however I do agree our culture has created concept of "happiness" that is difficult to achieve- much less sustain.
I can absolutely relate to the feeling that the person you chose is behaving in a way you never thought possible. We all make mistakes and everyone 's r or m has issues. However , the one thing that helps is when you truly recognize that your h makes those decisions. HE is choosing other things over you and your relationship. You have worked hard on making you and even better 3Boyz and you sound like an incredible mother. If he can't truly see that you are the prize, that's his loss. I know that's painful, but it doesn't mean you made a bad choice. You have 3 wonderful kids and every day is a gift. You are showing them strength in challenging situations and even though young, they will remember that. You are doing great!
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
