We are meeting later to discuss a concrete plan for the boys going forward. We do already have a schedule but it needs some adjusting as it is very heavily weighted towards them being almost always with me ( her choice) and I feel that it needs to be adjusted to ensure they spend more time with her. I am just concerned about the conversation itself, She had suggested that I come up with the plan and we could discuss it and I have created a schedule which I believe is fair but I also believe we should agree on our own personal interaction during handover times. I am considering asking her to just drop them off and not to come into the house as I really want to avoid conversation as I find it difficult. This will probably annoy her as she seems to make a point of coming in and then starting conversations. She rang me again last night out of the blue and was having general chat etc.I just don't know what to do for the best. On the one hand she insists that time and space are necessary and then behaves as if everything is normal and wants to have a chat???
