Spouse tried I didn't, now opposite

[whytry]

Ok i win the bone head of the year award for the umpteenth time! Discussing with W about me taking kid and his friends to movie, W tells me all she could think about on drive home was OW so I open my stupid mouth and say "I understand I caused our problems and sincerely apologize for my choices and take full responsibility for it but can't reconcile by myself so we both now carry the burden of divorce". Back to square one as michele would say. How did I forget sthu?