We are getting along great. We have agreed to not allow anything to escalate. She knows not to talk about OM in front of me. If she does I ask her to,stop. We also agree that we need too take breaks from each other on the weekends, and we can do our own things without notifying the other except for the protection of S15 or each other's well being.

We are still very close to each other and don't want to worry.

I have asked her to refrain from speaking g to OM in the home with the exception of the weekends since during the week she can do it from work.

She is also focusing on me and S15 when we are together.

We had dinner out tonight. There was a nice looking fella about ten years older out with his wife.

He could not keep his eyes off my wife and his wife knew it.

At one point I gave him the man look...when he finally figured out the look, I realized that we should be able to give each other a "look" when the other violates a boundary.


W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21
33 years M 28
DD 3 Feb 11, 2014
S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14
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