Thank you! Thank you! You just described my husband. I have been questioning, MLC, bipolar, a cheater, or something else. It sounds like MLC is it. His IC was starting to probe because she thinks he is bipolar. He figured it out pretty quick and stopped counseling.
I am terrifed because I think he means it when he says he is divorcing me at the end of his situation. i don't want a divorce. He is so into OW too. The month she was with boyfriend he was coming back to me - which I find very odd. I wonder if she was gone if he would come back. H has never been one to be alone. Also, he is stubborn and once he says something he does it whether he wants to or not. I am hoping that I am looked at as the friend and she is looked at as the nag. LOL
We are roommates now. Seperate bedrooms, no affection - no hugs, no kisses, no physical contact, small talk when together, no texting/no phone calls unless kid related. All of this is instigated by him - he gradually has taken all from me - it is like he is doing the detaching from me. UGH!!! I hate this! He said I started it by abandoning him for a decade - odd now he does not want any affection.
