So I am confused. If I don't press relationship or start nagging I don't see monster. H will make some off handed rude comments, but that would be the norm. Is it common for them to make small talk and be nice, but do the actions of a MLCer. I can almost keep him from getting monster if I watch what I say. So confused. Advice? Insight? I am still panicked it is not MLC - he just does not want me...ugh!
