So I texted H asking him to plz call D12 tonight as she has been upset and asking questions for a few days. He asked what kind of questions and what I've told her. I told him she's been asking why we haven't talked and such and that I told her as little as possible without lying. He said he would call her asked if I got her a new phone yet. (I have not)
He then proceeded to ask "how have you been doing?" Lots of responses went thru my head but I said "ok, keeping busy with kids, working, working out and stuff" He asked where I've been working and we talked briefly about that.
He then asked "are you planning on going to (vacation place)?" I responded that "we'd like to...and the girls are really looking forward to it" He asked if I was going to drive and if we were taking the dog. To which I responded that I was thinking about driving and not sure about the dog.
So not sure how I did with this. The work thing was good, and that I've been busy. I didn't ask any questions about him at all. Did not pursue him or try to hold him in the convo.
Not so sure about the trip. I wanted to drive last summer and take the dog and he was completely against it. But, by the time we buy plane tix, rent a car for 3ish weeks, kennel the dog it gets expensive. Maybe I should have said it's the only way I can afford to go...not sure.
Some things that I felt like saying but didn't: How can I explain to D12 why we're not talking when I don't understand it?
If you cared how I was doing you would call or text once and awhile.
Yes I'm driving and taking the dog because I'm a grown woman and can do what I want!
Of course I wish he would have said that he didn't want me to drive or take the dog but that would show that he cares what I do.
There is so much that I want to say to him! sigh
Me-44 (45) H- 50 (51) M-'96
S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)
BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas) home Oct(sep rooms) (EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed) insists wants D through July 2015 no more talk of D since