I have read the first few chapters in DR, and find the Divorce traps may pertain to our situation distinctly.

W best friend is a therapist (not marriage) but the influence is still profound. She asked for a hug today... i feel she really wants to work on the relationship, but is convinced she's 'doing the right thing'.

On a side note, my title has a smiling face, as well as next to my name. I assure you, I'm am NOT happy! How do I change the emoticons!


Me: 43, W:42
M: 11 years
T: 17 years
Step S:22
Separated: 5/08/10 (came back 8 months later)
Bomb Dropped: 04/12/14

Doing a 180 and Sandi2's rules