I have read the first few chapters in DR, and find the Divorce traps may pertain to our situation distinctly.
W best friend is a therapist (not marriage) but the influence is still profound. She asked for a hug today... i feel she really wants to work on the relationship, but is convinced she's 'doing the right thing'.
On a side note, my title has a smiling face, as well as next to my name. I assure you, I'm am NOT happy! How do I change the emoticons!
Me: 43, W:42 M: 11 years T: 17 years Step S:22 Separated: 5/08/10 (came back 8 months later) Bomb Dropped: 04/12/14