More points to ponder...

[wishing, hoping]

Dateline: April 25, 2014. De novo hearing. Two words: no dice.

H's de novo hearing went no where. The judge didn't even know wny we were there. The judge started off with explaining to H that if he thought support would be reduced he was dead wrong. The judge explained "Mr H I have reviewed the court commissioner's findings and I think he was very lenient in what support was ordered. If You really feel the need to do these proceedings over I need to warn you that I could very well and more than likely will increase the amount you are to pay Ms H." The judge announced what he would have H pay and my eyes bugged out of my head. H backed down on that motion immediately.

The only other item that was discussed was the fact that H didn't get half my bonus this past December even though I tried to give it to him. So at the end the judge said "so Mr H the only thing on your list that needs discussion is the $275 you feel WH owes you?". H said yes. So he made a huge fool of himself in front of the judge.

We were ordered to financial mediation which I have to pay half of. It's stupid but my attorney said it may be the only way H sees the light. H is getting bad advice. He's making an absolute fool of himself.

So I'm at the park with the kid's. They are playing soccer With S's GF and her sisters. Nice day. I brought a bunch of snacks to the park so we are having a quasi picnic. Then We are taking S to get his hair cut and for ice cream and pick up a bike helmet for D.

Had a nice night last night with some friends after work. Learned how to play tabletop shuffleboard. I'm not much of a game player but I'm GAL'ing. It was fun! Next I need to learn pool and poker! Lol.

Life is looking up. At least for today.

WH