My H always had some temper in certain situations, but it got worse maybe a couple years prior to BD. He became very impatient with people and surprised me a few times when he didn’t want to hang around some people he liked before. Even his brother noticed the changes.

I think he is still continuing on this path. I’ve heard that he pi$$sed some of his recent drinking buddies recently. Our mutual friends also told me that he became very impatient and intolerant. Well, he had these trends before, but they are much amplified now.

And this is the thing that bothers me. He didn’t completely change into someone direct opposite. So, does it mean that he will never come out of this crisis? All his behaviors will just become milder again.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state