He definately is doing the crazy things. But he is so nice to everyone but me. People only see that he has changed a bunch. Here is the list and remember he was conservative to begin with - swearing would have been a huge no no prior to this.
1. swearing 2. drinking 3. EA and PA (does not admit it) 4. tattoos 5. Lying 90% of time and believes his lies 6. Blaming me for everything 7. wants a divorce 8. Going out most nights until wee hours 9. Does not want intimacy from me or even hugs or kisses 10. ILYBINILWY 11. Brand new clothes - even underwear 12. different hair style 13. working out 14. Only mean to me 15. Playing the victim - even with work 16. never leaving cell phone alone 17. His idea to be in seperate bedroom 18. can go nice to mean on me in second (some professionals think he is bipolar - but H quit IC) 19. spending lots money 20. Never wrong - even at work 21. porn 22. removed wedding ring right away
There is probably more. I guess when you are conservative to begin with - you get a longer list. I am not sure what is left for him to do. He is very far into OW. The month that she was gone, he started coming back to me (not a MLC behavior.)
I do have some good moments, but this is the hardest thing I have been thru. People that have been through it are the only ones that understand why I am standing.
