Actually, I really didn't want him here before I found the charge.
I personally think it's really unfair of him, given that he's moved out. I think the kids are more confused by it than the spouse is. Owning the house with you is as much a "technicality" as being married is at this point. Yet he didn't really care to keep that in mind, did he?
Good luck, and have a good weekend.
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."