many more people that we would like to imagine ENJOY telling us things about our lives that are less than perfect.
they enjoy the reaction and they keep prodding until they get one.
I have people that still will try to tell me something my ex is doing....I have been divorced for almost 8 years....I don't care what he is doing and in fact, don't think about him really until they bring him up. He is not the father of my children so I don't have to think about him.