Thanks so much. I just don't get how he can be so nice to everyone but me. He says he does not hate me. He loves me but not in love, and he will never feel that again. That I am nice and great mom- makes this difficult. That he had tried for a decade and he is done trying. He us putting up his wall. He says he is done and wants a divorce. He us waiting til his situation is resolved and then he will divorce me. I think he will too. I think this will be my biggest challenge of my life...ugh