Thanks do much. I really appreciate it. So does the countdown begin at bd or before? I have been trying to detach and gal. I am not there, but better. I have not been able to set boundaries, as he mows over. There really are no consequences to set. We still live in same home and he is one that wants divorce. He had always been dominant and stubborn. He always talked of temper, which I only saw towards others...now I am only one that sees it. Everyone else he is nice to. They however are starting to see the craziness.
I still can't stop feeling bad. Why didn't I see it coming? maybe I could have stopped it from getting so far. Feel bad for everything he perceives I did wrong.
Ugh!;; this is hard. But I know I am not done. I don't quit. It is in sickness and health and right now he is sick.
