I am going to give myself a compliment here... one that I think most of us on this forum deserve to give to ourselves. When my spouse said she was done and wanted a D and told me the reasons why, instead of pointing the finger at her and her faults/flaws, I instead turned the spotlight on myself and found the truth in what she had to say about my faults/flaws and began to remedy them. That is HUGE. That is not the norm. We all deserve to pat ourselves on the back for that. If my W ends up not being the beneficiary of that effort, I will be no matter what.
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14
