Thank you so much for your advice. It really helps. So the night went well. I played things close to my chest, didn't follow her around like a lost puppy AND killed the spider when it was spotted the next morning in a manly fashion lol WAW said to d did she like daddy staying. Then when d was gone WAW asked me in a normal fashion was I happy now, was I now over her and was I no longer upset like I was when I left at New Years. I said yes, things were gd and then left it at that. I have promised myself I will now get on with things for me - I like the idea of taking guitar lessons and starting yoga. But I also plan on continuing to stay aloof ie no calling on phone unless daughter issues and will say no if she asks me to stay again. I hope this is me on the right track.
M 35 W 31 D 10 Married 3 years Together 11 Single since Nov 13 Moved out Dec 13 ILYBNILWY, 'I don't want to be a boring housewife, 'I don't fancy you any more' OM confirmed Jun 14