Last night while driving home from work W called and asked if I could pick dog up from vet. She had plans to go out with a girlfriend for dinner and drinks @ 6p which was the same time the vet suggested for pickup.
I had been a little frustrated/jealous that she was going out and was a little aggravated that she called me at 545 for the vet pickup but I agreed to do it anyway since it wasn't that far out of the way and it seemed petty to be annoyed and feeling like I was only there for her convenience when needed.
When I got there one of the ladies at the counter said "your W is such a ray of sunshine when she comes into the office and we all really enjoy her so much. You must be a really good husband to keep her so happy!"
I thanked her (after almost coking on my soda) and thought to myself Wow - really universe? What message is that supposed to be?
This morning feel kind of mixed about the whole thing - great that someone could recognize (even though inadvertently) that I am a great guy but also frustrated that seems like the rest of the world gets W's good side and what I am getting right now is the cold, distant and dark parts.......
Me-48,W-51 M-22,T-24 S- 18,16,9 Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork
