She moved home but still in love with OM!

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So if my WAW invites me to sit in bed with her and get work done on our laptops or watch TV what should I do?
I agree last time it became attack mode and we argued, it felt horrible to me for days. I used to get a weird rise out of it but this time it was awful..

So this time we worked, I feel asleep, she woke me up eventually because it was time to call Mr. needy her OM.

I just don't know if this is right. I know some experts say go dark...that's not going to work...

She even asked me to rub her feet which I used to so every night...

The confusion comes from her needing me but not wanting me...I think....