You rocked it! Get your log out and write down all the small victories. You need to find an IC. It is important to her, and, most importantly, it'll help you. Just talking with someone about what you are going through and what improvements you are making helps a lot.

Now keep doing what you are doing and observe how she responds to this.

me: 45 W:45
M 20 years
T 22 years
S14, S13, S11, D9
BD 2/28/14
D papers served 3/3/14
I moved out 3/15/14
MC start 4/2/14
I moved in 6/2/14
D suit withdrawn 6/30/14