"Its the fact that she is starting conversations when we had agreed minimal contact. "
Agreeing to giving her "space" and "time" isn't an exact minimal contact agreement. She is their mom after all, so she should have scheduled access to them. Just not whenever she feels like it.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.