4th Down And Getting A Little Anxious

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Georgiabelle, BF, and BluesGal - After reading all the material on this site about MLC and reading so many posts, I was also able to very clearly see the progression of my H's MLC up to the BD. He told me he loved me daily up until that day, like he always did. Bluesgal, you are on a similar timeline as me - BD last June. And I, too, saw him 'getting increasingly angry, impatient, and antsy.' And becoming less content. I was also hurt and pulled away from him, not knowing what exactly was brewing. That made for a rough last year before BD. I just didn't know. I took it personally, and blamed the rest on his work situation. He has told me several times now: 'I wasn't unhappy, but I wasn't happy.' That's how he explained it.

Anyway, we are all survivors. Hang in there my fellow LBS's. We will all make it through...so nice to know we are not alone!