"but I believed we had agreed and now she is really staring to wind me up."
Saying that you're going to give her "space" isn't a concrete set of rules. If you want to have something enforceable, then come up with a concrete schedule and stick to it.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.