Bug ... You always ask the best questions. It hurt to hear his plans because it brought up bad memories. It also hurts to know that he continues to choose OW and his relationship with her. It hurts to know that the OW and his job matter more to him than having a R with me (his W, former BF and the mother of his children). I am disappointed that this the man that I picked to marry. It is also hard because we had started to connect over the past couple months but his actions continued to show that he was moving out the door even more.