It would be sad to have a life that included spying on your BF's XW who happens to be creating a beautiful life. And at our age. Sheesh.

You sound better every day.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss