"1. How far should I take this 180 idea in respect for dating others? I’m assuming it’s too much to start randomly dating or listing a profile on dating sites to increase value or the perception of moving on."
Wow that's fast. You haven't even changed yourself to stop those behaviors that she didn't like about you. So do you and your W still swing?
I'm not sure how you expect her to just be exclusive to you if you're actively having sex with someone else.
We haven't been actively swinging for about a year. I have not had any A or OW outside of this marriage. Only OW OM were in the context of swinging, which was with the W present.
I have changed alot, but agree its very soon.
Me: 43, W:42 M: 11 years T: 17 years Step S:22 Separated: 5/08/10 (came back 8 months later) Bomb Dropped: 04/12/14
