My wife paused for a while and continued the conversation and I'm having that conversation now. Hopefully I handle it correctly. So far I've said that I respect her choice for me to leave and that me leaving is her choice and not mine.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014