Ijust reread one of your posts. I'm not sure if this is appropriate DB, however you may not want to offer up so much stuff on your kids. Your h is focused on himself. Telling him about the kids' feelings will feel like guilt to him. You have to protect your kids because I have a feeling that isn't high on your h's priority list. Let him own that relationship with the kids. Don't faciliate or naviagate. You just remind them you are there for them and let his relationship with them play out as it may. You can't fix that.
Hope you are having a better day:)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
